the.way.we.are
Thursday, November 25, 2010
wedding.and.gowns
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Marrying the person whom you love dearly, is the most exciting moment in our lives. On this spectacular day, we are in our best wedding gown or suits, walking down the aisle and receiving blessings from families and friends. It is a big day and history in the making for us. We all want our wedding day to turn out to be perfect and memorable, like a fairytale come true. There is no room for mistake on our wedding day because mistakes and unpreparedness are going to hamper our mood and the romantic atmosphere. Perfection is what we want on our wedding day! A fabulous wedding requires meticulous planning and preparation. The reality is that we may not have the time and resources to successfully plan and execute the wedding event effectively and effortlessly.
There are endless details to arrange, many logistics to organize, large numbers of vendors and service providers to interview, to hire, schedules and timelines to prepare, and most importantly budgets to manage. These alone may cause stress and fear leading to the important event which is the wedding day. Many brides and grooms run themselves ragged in the months leading up to their wedding day. Most of them went by in a blur state of mind because they had to attend to the tasks and schedules, and worry about their wedding outcomes, coupled with little time to relax and enjoy the wonderful moment.
soulmate
Friday, November 19, 2010
romeo.and.juliet
Thursday, November 18, 2010
friends.bestfriends
- FRIENDS: Will comfort you when he rejects you.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will go up and ask him, “It’s because you’re gay, isn’t it?”
- FRIENDS: Will be there for you when he breaks up with you.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will call him up and whisper, “you will die in Seven days…” (Note, if you don’t understand this, watch The Ring. Then watch The Ring 2. Then watch Ringu.)
- FRIENDS: Help you up when you fall.
- BEST FRIENDS: Keeps on walking saying, “Walk much, dumb ass?”
- FRIENDS: Help you find your prince.
- BEST FRIENDS: Kidnap him and brings him to you.
- FRIENDS: Will ask you if you’re okay when you’re crying.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will laugh at you and say, “Ha Ha, Loser!”
- FRIENDS: Will offer you a soda.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will dump theirs on you.
- FRIENDS: Will sit at the side of the pool with you at that time of the month.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will throw you a tampon and push you in.
- FRIENDS: Gives you their umbrella in the rain.
- BEST FRIENDS: Takes yours and says, “Run, fucker, run!”
- FRIENDS: Will help you move.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will help you move the bodies.
- FRIENDS: Will bail you out of jail.
- BEST FRIENDS: Would be in the room next to you saying, “That was awesome! Let’s do it again!”
- FRIENDS: Would bail you out of jail again
- BEST FRIENDS: Would be sitting next to you saying “DAMN!” we messed up!
- FRIENDS: Never ask for anything to eat or drink.
- BEST FRIENDS: Help themselves and are the reason why you have no food.
- FRIENDS: Call your parents by Mr. and Mrs. and Grandpa, by Grandpa.
- BEST FRIENDS: Call your parents DAD and MOM and Grandpa, GRAMPS!
- FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
- BEST FRIENDS: Wont tell everyone else you cried…just laugh about it with you in private when your not down anymore.
- FRIENDS: Asks you to write down your number.
- BEST FRIENDS: Have you on speed dial.
- FRIENDS: Borrows your stuff for a few days then gives it back.
- BEST FRIENDS: Loses your stuff and tells you, “My bad…here’s a tissue.”
- FRIENDS: Only know a few things about you.
- BEST FRIENDS: Could write a very embarrassing biography on your life story…
- FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowd’s ass that left you
- FRIENDS: Would knock on your front door.
- BEST FRIENDS: Walk right in and say “I’M HOME.”
- FRIENDS: You have to tell them not to tell anyone.
- BEST FRIENDS: Already know not to tell.
- FRIENDS: Are only through high school/college. (aka: drinking buddies)
- BEST FRIENDS: Are for life.
- FRIENDS: Will be there to take your drink away from you when they think you’ve had enough.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will look at you stumbling all over the place & say “Girl drink the rest of that ! You know we don’t waste!
- FRIENDS: Would read and ignore this.
- BEST FRIENDS: Will repost this :)
less.is.more
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Awak sayang saya tak?
Awak rindu saya tak?
Awak sayang saya banyak mana?
Bila si dia tak balas, atau lambat balas, mesti nak sentap guna ayat, "Kalau awak betul-betul sayang tak perlu pun nak fikir-fikir boleh terus jawab je.."
Perlu ke perasaan sayang diberitahu setiap hari? Eh tak tak. PERLU KE ASYIK NAK TANYA ORANG ITU SAYANG KAU KE TIDAK? Elok-elok dia sayang terus jadi muak dan hilang rasa sayang. You know what? Sesuatu itu mungkin akan kurang signifikannya jika diberi secara mudah dan berlebihan. Less is more lah.
Perempuan. Selalu nak berfikir sesuatu yang tidak perlu/tidak penting secara mendalam. Bila si dia seperti dingin, atau suram, atau tidak bersemangat seperti selalunya, mesti nak fikir entah apa-apa.
Dia sudah tidak sayang kah?
Aku sudah tidak menggembirakan diakah?
Entah-entah dia dah jumpa orang yang lebih baik.
Kemudian mula mengaitkan kejadian si dia tolong hantar Melah ke asrama, kekerapan si dia berjumpa si Suzie di perpustakaan untuk menyiapkan kerja kumpulan, dan terbayang kata-kata si dia memuji Fiona pandai main boling. Semuanya hanya spekulasi, bukan apa-apa pun. Tapi mesti nak rasa sedih, lalu mula nak buka bunga-bunga cari gaduh minta perhatian, dan akibatnya gaduh besar. Padahal pucuk pangkalnya bukan apa-apa, hanya emosi sendiri. Tak fikirkah mungkin si dia ada masalah keluarga/kewangan/pelajaran atau apa sahaja? Kau sepatutnya menjadi orang yang paling menenangkan hatinya, bukan penambah stress. Haishh...
Perempuan. Selalu nak terasa apabila si dia memuji perempuan cantik lain. Or perempuan lain yang cantik. Whatever. Ini aku tak boleh terima. Siapa tak suka perempuan cantik? Aku sendiri suka melihat dan memuji perempuan cantik, apatah lagilah kaum berlawanan. Menghargai sesuatu yang cantik tidak membuatkan kau bertambah hodoh pun. Biarlah si dia nak puji perempuan cantik pun, kau sendiri tahu dalam hati dia hanya dipenuhi wajah kau kan?
Perempuan. Selalu nak sibuk bertanya kisah silam si dia. Siapa bekas kekasih? Berapa lama bersama? Hadiah apa pernah bagi? Bila si dia enggan bercerita, pandai pula guna ayat, "Ala cerita jelah, Ai open je. Ai boleh je terima..". Tapi bila si dia benar-benar bercerita, mula nak membanding-bandingkan, mula rasa terancam, mula rasa berbaur-baur perasaan. Sedangkan kau sendiri yang memaksa segalanya dibongkarkan.. Girls, please please please do not let your/his past ruin your present happiness. Tak berbaloi kot.
Perempuan yang berkawan baik dengan lelaki, apabila si lelaki bercinta, bertunang atau berkahwin dan mula menumpukan perhatian pada hubungan baru lalu rengganglah sedikit persahabatan itu, mesti nak terasa hati. Mesti nak sentap. Sket2 nak sentap. Aiyooo x sesuai lah.
"Sejak kahwin lupa dah aku, aku ni kawan dia bertahun-tahun..".
Haih. Kalau kau benar-benar sahabat yang baik, mesti kau akan lebih memahami situasi dan keutamaannya. Being a true bestfriend, you should just pray for his happiness instead. Unless kalau kau memang menyimpan perasaan lain terhadap kawan baik kau tu.
Perempuan. Bila bergaduh sibuklah nak bercerita canang habis pada orang lain. Ketika itu si dia itulah yang paling buruk, paling teruk, pendek kata memang menyesal lah kau bercinta dengan dia. Bercerita pula penuh berjujuran air mata, dan orang yang mendengar mula mengasihani dan mula berpandangan buruk terhadap si dia, yang deep inside kau tahu dialah yang sangat kau sayangi dan sangat kau mahukan. Tiba-tiba esok lusa sudah berbaik, sudah ketawa bersama, sudah makan bersuap kembali. Dan kau tanpa segan silu menceritakan betapa bahagianya kau pada orang yang sama yang mendengar kisah sedih kau kelmarin. Kau fikir apa yang mereka rasa? *loser*
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Perempuan. Kau, dia, aku. Please do not let your emotions cloud your judgement. Be the smartest woman. If you do not appreciate yourself, do not expect others will do it for you.













