friends.bestfriends

• FRIENDS: Will comfort you when he rejects you.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will go up and ask him, “It’s because you’re gay, isn’t it?”
• FRIENDS: Will be there for you when he breaks up with you.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will call him up and whisper, “you will die in Seven days…” (Note, if you don’t understand this, watch The Ring. Then watch The Ring 2. Then watch Ringu.)
• FRIENDS: Help you up when you fall.
• BEST FRIENDS: Keeps on walking saying, “Walk much, dumb ass?”
• FRIENDS: Help you find your prince.
• BEST FRIENDS: Kidnap him and brings him to you.
• FRIENDS: Will ask you if you’re okay when you’re crying.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will laugh at you and say, “Ha Ha, Loser!”
• FRIENDS: Will offer you a soda.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will dump theirs on you.
• FRIENDS: Will sit at the side of the pool with you at that time of the month.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will throw you a tampon and push you in.
• FRIENDS: Gives you their umbrella in the rain.
• BEST FRIENDS: Takes yours and says, “Run, fucker, run!”
• FRIENDS: Will help you move.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will help you move the bodies.
• FRIENDS: Will bail you out of jail.
• BEST FRIENDS: Would be in the room next to you saying, “That was awesome! Let’s do it again!”
• FRIENDS: Would bail you out of jail again
• BEST FRIENDS: Would be sitting next to you saying “DAMN!” we messed up!
• FRIENDS: Never ask for anything to eat or drink.
• BEST FRIENDS: Help themselves and are the reason why you have no food.
• FRIENDS: Call your parents by Mr. and Mrs. and Grandpa, by Grandpa.
• BEST FRIENDS: Call your parents DAD and MOM and Grandpa, GRAMPS!
• FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
• BEST FRIENDS: Wont tell everyone else you cried…just laugh about it with you in private when your not down anymore.
• FRIENDS: Asks you to write down your number.
• BEST FRIENDS: Have you on speed dial.
• FRIENDS: Borrows your stuff for a few days then gives it back.
• BEST FRIENDS: Loses your stuff and tells you, “My bad…here’s a tissue.”
• FRIENDS: Only know a few things about you.
• BEST FRIENDS: Could write a very embarrassing biography on your life story…
• FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowd’s ass that left you
• FRIENDS: Would knock on your front door.
• BEST FRIENDS: Walk right in and say “I’M HOME.”
• FRIENDS: You have to tell them not to tell anyone.
• BEST FRIENDS: Already know not to tell.
• FRIENDS: Are only through high school/college. (aka: drinking buddies)
• BEST FRIENDS: Are for life.
• FRIENDS: Will be there to take your drink away from you when they think you’ve had enough.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will look at you stumbling all over the place & say “Girl drink the rest of that ! You know we don’t waste!
• FRIENDS: Would read and ignore this.
• BEST FRIENDS: Will repost this :)

less.is.more

Perempuan. Suka bertanya soalan-soalan pathetic seperti;


Awak sayang saya tak?
Awak rindu saya tak?
Awak sayang saya banyak mana?
Bila si dia tak balas, atau lambat balas, mesti nak sentap guna ayat, "Kalau awak betul-betul sayang tak perlu pun nak fikir-fikir boleh terus jawab je.."


Perlu ke perasaan sayang diberitahu setiap hari? Eh tak tak. PERLU KE ASYIK NAK TANYA ORANG ITU SAYANG KAU KE TIDAK? Elok-elok dia sayang terus jadi muak dan hilang rasa sayang. You know what? Sesuatu itu mungkin akan kurang signifikannya jika diberi secara mudah dan berlebihan. Less is more lah.

Perempuan. Selalu nak berfikir sesuatu yang tidak perlu/tidak penting secara mendalam. Bila si dia seperti dingin, atau suram, atau tidak bersemangat seperti selalunya, mesti nak fikir entah apa-apa.


Dia sudah tidak sayang kah?
Aku sudah tidak menggembirakan diakah?
Entah-entah dia dah jumpa orang yang lebih baik.
Kemudian mula mengaitkan kejadian si dia tolong hantar Melah ke asrama, kekerapan si dia berjumpa si Suzie di perpustakaan untuk menyiapkan kerja kumpulan, dan terbayang kata-kata si dia memuji Fiona pandai main boling. Semuanya hanya spekulasi, bukan apa-apa pun. Tapi mesti nak rasa sedih, lalu mula nak buka bunga-bunga cari gaduh minta perhatian, dan akibatnya gaduh besar. Padahal pucuk pangkalnya bukan apa-apa, hanya emosi sendiri. Tak fikirkah mungkin si dia ada masalah keluarga/kewangan/pelajaran atau apa sahaja? Kau sepatutnya menjadi orang yang paling menenangkan hatinya, bukan penambah stress. Haishh...

Perempuan. Selalu nak terasa apabila si dia memuji perempuan cantik lain. Or perempuan lain yang cantik. Whatever. Ini aku tak boleh terima. Siapa tak suka perempuan cantik? Aku sendiri suka melihat dan memuji perempuan cantik, apatah lagilah kaum berlawanan. Menghargai sesuatu yang cantik tidak membuatkan kau bertambah hodoh pun. Biarlah si dia nak puji perempuan cantik pun, kau sendiri tahu dalam hati dia hanya dipenuhi wajah kau kan?


Perempuan. Selalu nak sibuk bertanya kisah silam si dia. Siapa bekas kekasih? Berapa lama bersama? Hadiah apa pernah bagi? Bila si dia enggan bercerita, pandai pula guna ayat, "Ala cerita jelah, Ai open je. Ai boleh je terima..". Tapi bila si dia benar-benar bercerita, mula nak membanding-bandingkan, mula rasa terancam, mula rasa berbaur-baur perasaan. Sedangkan kau sendiri yang memaksa segalanya dibongkarkan.. Girls, please please please do not let your/his past ruin your present happiness. Tak berbaloi kot.

Perempuan yang berkawan baik dengan lelaki, apabila si lelaki bercinta, bertunang atau berkahwin dan mula menumpukan perhatian pada hubungan baru lalu rengganglah sedikit persahabatan itu, mesti nak terasa hati. Mesti nak sentap. Sket2 nak sentap. Aiyooo x sesuai lah.

"Sejak kahwin lupa dah aku, aku ni kawan dia bertahun-tahun..".

Haih. Kalau kau benar-benar sahabat yang baik, mesti kau akan lebih memahami situasi dan keutamaannya. Being a true bestfriend, you should just pray for his happiness instead. Unless kalau kau memang menyimpan perasaan lain terhadap kawan baik kau tu.


Perempuan. Bila bergaduh sibuklah nak bercerita canang habis pada orang lain. Ketika itu si dia itulah yang paling buruk, paling teruk, pendek kata memang menyesal lah kau bercinta dengan dia. Bercerita pula penuh berjujuran air mata, dan orang yang mendengar mula mengasihani dan mula berpandangan buruk terhadap si dia, yang deep inside kau tahu dialah yang sangat kau sayangi dan sangat kau mahukan. Tiba-tiba esok lusa sudah berbaik, sudah ketawa bersama, sudah makan bersuap kembali. Dan kau tanpa segan silu menceritakan betapa bahagianya kau pada orang yang sama yang mendengar kisah sedih kau kelmarin. Kau fikir apa yang mereka rasa? *loser*

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Perempuan. Kau, dia, aku. Please do not let your emotions cloud your judgement. Be the smartest woman. If you do not appreciate yourself, do not expect others will do it for you.

apakah.itu.mungkin

Janganlah kau angkuh melaungkan.. .

Si dia kepunyaan mu ...

Atau kau kepunyaan si dia ...

Kerana hakikatnya.. .

Kita tidak pernah memiliki sesiapa...

Walau sekeping hati seorang insan...

Tidakkah kau sedar...

Hukum alam menyatakan.. .

Mencintai tidak semestinya memiliki?...

Manusia pandai berpura ...

Berlakon di pentas dunia...

Dan bertopeng menutup rahsia..

Tetapi hati...

Tidak pernah berdusta pada empunya...

Tentang perasaan yang bergolak di dalamnya...

Tidakkah kau sedar...

Mungkin si dia melafazkan.. .

Ungkapan cinta pada mu ...

Tetapi hati dan perasaannya. ..

Tidak pernah berniat begitu...

Dia hanya berselindung. ..

Di sebalik sejuta alasan...

Dan kau...

Begitu jujur dan setia mencintainya. .

Sehingga terlupa..

Hukum alam menyatakan..

Mencintai tidak bermakna memiliki..

Sesungguhnya. ..

"Aku tidak pernah memiliki diri mu..."

"Dan kau jua tidak memiliki diri ku."

Mengertilah. ..

Kita sebenarnya kepunyaan..

Yang Maha Esa...

Tiada sesiapa berhak memiliki diri kita...

Kecuali Dia...

Dia mengasihi hamba-Nya...

Dia memiliki hamba-Nya...

Dan ke pangkuan Dia kita akan di kembali.....

long.time.no.see

it has been a long time..so demn busy lately with work stuffs as usual..believe it or not im in d ofiss on public hols unpaid! aiyoyoyoooo..didnt have any interesting gossips lately coz been hell of a rough time of work! too many projects to settle. like d bos said 'u want d bonus? make an effort of deserving it!' woot2!~ i think im much more deserved from others kot..ehehehe..lalallaaalaaalaa~~ anyway, i got i of interesting story but sumone juz said to me 'tat person is insecure tats y tat person keep on disturbing u' hahahaha! i think its true though.. well nevermind then..i got nothing to lose including my mind ;) if u wanna lose ur mind...'teruskanlah~~'

opsss my bff iz getting married! yeay! congrates to them...! finally so demn epi for u guys ;) as usual im gonna be the maid of honor..but..............thank GOD the partner wasnt tat guy or 'sumone' gonna lossssssseeeeeeeee her mind.........hikhik! opsss so gonna be busy helping on her 3 days big day!

well need to break for a while..will be back soon ;)

Lourve,
Zara

♥ gaza ♥

hepi Wednesday u ols....!!! im hepi today...y? juz in a good mood ;) Anyway, been few days did get enuf sleep. been sleeping like only 2/3 hours per day only n im like woooo super duper tired! so wats up with yesterday?? GAZA?? OMG! i went to watch football game with my ♥ ring... SELANGOR vs. KELANTAN n it wuz in chaos!!! well it wuz predicted that d game gonna be like tat. i meant d fans behavior. they were like soooooo typical minded 'kampung' peps. hahahaha! dunt be mad haa kelantanese but tats the truth! obviously..! im guessing all those mercun n watsoever stocks from raya didnt finish yet huh. but poor thing to those tat being victims of most this kinda peps. did they want to be hooligans?? oh think bout it..when the Kelantan Team won they will be riots but celebrating it n imagine if they lose?? they will kill each other!! see how obvious they can be such 'kampung' peps? i remembered one of my panel Dr Rozita said, they tend to be like tat coz of their culture n nature n mostly of their NURTURE. poor thing they were born to be like tat. it's the surroundings tat affect their behavior. Educationally?? even they r on top of Oxford list, they stil 'kampung'. those typical minded peps cant be changed till they die..hmm poor thing...ok enuf with those peps coz sory to say i dunt like 'kampung' peps :P

Opsss work calling :D

TiIl then..

Lourve,
Zara

10.10.10

10.10.10 

Perfect TEN!

alhamdulillah sgalanya bjalan lancar..apakah itu...? hmm mungkin tidak perlu dikongsi buat mse ini.. biarlah rahsia...ehehehe.. yg penting!

Kalo tidak BerhatI tegaR! janGaN PernaH BercInta DgN MerEkA!

Hari smlm tdk bmula dgn begitu yg dharapkan.. Langsung tdk m'ikut jadual! haissshh timeline x exact btol lah but im hepi in d end.

 PERFECTO!

5.more.days

wat will happen in 5 more days......? tunggu..........................!

counting....

counting...

counting..

~dup dap dup dap~